Sunday, 23 October 2016

Endless hope and hopeless end

Twenty-one-year-old Matthew had been homeless for three years – sleeping rough on the streets of London. Mark Russell (who was appointed head of the Church Army while still in his twenties) met him on the streets of Charing Cross in London, bought him some food and led him to Christ.
As he was getting up to leave he said, ‘Matthew, over the next month I am going to be on platforms speaking to thousands of people. One of the sessions I’m going to be speaking at is the whole General Synod about mission... what piece of advice do you want me to give to the Church of England today?’
Matthew replied, ‘The church’s job is to stop arguing and to bring people hope.’
Mark Russell commented, ‘I have never heard a better definition of what we should be about: “Stop arguing about all kinds of stuff and bring hope.” Don’t we have a gospel of hope? A gospel that brings hope? A gospel of life, a gospel of transformation, a gospel of joy and a gospel of grace, and above all a hope of eternal life, the hope of Jesus.’ Many people see only a hopeless end; but with Jesus you can enjoy an endless hope.
Hope is one of the three great theological virtues – the others being love and faith. As Raniero Cantalamessa writes, ‘They are like three sisters. Two of them are grown and the other is a small child. They go forward together hand in hand with the child hope in the middle. Looking at them it would seem that the bigger ones are pulling the child, but it is the other way around; it is the little girl who is pulling the two bigger ones. It is hope that pulls faith and love. Without hope everything would stop.’

Saturday, 22 October 2016

EvErYtHiNg dEpeNd oN yOuR aTtiTudE

walk alone
I walk alone
I walk alone
I walk a-lone
My shadow's the only one that walks beside me
My shallow hearts the only thing that's beating
Sometimes I wish someone out there will find me
'Til then I walk alone

Being human

They always keep us on a pedestal by having great expectations from us - of understanding football, cricket , going out clubbing yet being the demure petite 'bahu' at all the family dos and being absolute devils in bed!   

2. Once they love us they cannot delete us from their systems although our loyalties might keep switching between our fathers, boyfriends, husbands and sons all our lives!

3. He tries his best to surprise us although his surprise might put us in an absolute state of shock!

4. Though most of us feel that men can very rarely be as sensitive as us, it's just we on the contrary who need to understand that their ways of being sensitive are manly else they'd be just like us and oh wouldn't that make the world so boring?

5. They can really hold secrets and even forget them conveniently! Don't expect him to remember the colleague you bitched about the other day to him!

6.  He might never be our 'best friend' but in spite of being impatient and short tempered with the world around he really tries to be a patient listener.

7. He might not be the 'knight in shining armor' out of our dreams but he can pamper us with all his love.

8. They are babies at heart, they respect us, can't do without us but will never admit it or praise women!

9. They are born loyal- ever heard a man who forgets his ma-ke-haath-ka-khaana?

10. They always want to be heroic, no matter where they are in spite of all their flaws just to impress us women!

Cheers to such men - who wear chivalry on their sleeves and possess the innocent heart of a child all their lives!

Meaning of life

The meaning of life, or the answer to the question "What is the meaning of life?", pertains to the significance of living or existence in general. Many other related questions include "Why are we here?", "What is life all about?", and "What is the purpose of existence?" or even "Does life exist at all?" There have been a large number of proposed answers to these questions from many different cultural and ideological backgrounds. The search for life's meaning has produced much philosophicalscientifictheological, and metaphysical speculation throughout history. Different people and cultures believe different things for the answer to this question.
The meaning of life as we perceive it is derived from philosophical and religious contemplation of, and scientific inquiries about existencesocial tiesconsciousness, and happiness. Many other issues are also involved, such as symbolic meaningontologyvaluepurposeethicsgood and evilfree will, the existence of one or multiple godsconceptions of God, the soul, and the afterlife. Scientific contributions focus primarily on describing related empirical facts about the universe, exploring the context and parameters concerning the "how" of life. Science also studies and can provide recommendations for the pursuit of well-being and a related conception of morality. An alternative, humanistic approach poses the question, "What is the meaning of my life?"

Friday, 21 October 2016

Thankful to the person........

If someone comes into your life and has a positive impact on you, but for some reason they can’t stay, be thankful that your paths crossed and that they somehow made you happy, even if it was just for a short while. Life is change. People really do come and go. Some come back, some don’t, and that’s okay. And just because one person leaves, doesn’t mean you should forget about everyone else who’s still standing by your side. Continue to appreciate what you have, and smile about the memories.

Monday, 17 October 2016

Proud to be a soft hearted people

.) Your kindness, gentleness and acceptance are not weaknesses but it is in fact, immense strength!


Providing love, sympathy and affection to a cruel cruel world is a choice and a sign that shows what a strong human being you are.

2.) The capacity that you have to love your near and dear is highly admirable. #Truth


Your family, friends and lover are all extremely lucky to have you in their life reason being, you’re not one to hold back on your emotions and let them know just how much they mean to you.

3.) When you’re in the presence of someone in need, your compassionate side swings right into motion!


It doesn’t matter whether the person is a friend in need of some valuable advice or a stranger; without hesitation you are willing to help.

4.) You always wear a smile on your face!


The poker-face is one of your dislikes. You believe that it is only polite to be merry and happy while conversing with others. That little smile is something that comes to you reflexively.

5.) People may associate soft-hearted with weak, but little do they know that you’re a person that roars mental strength!


You’ve been underestimated before but you were tolerant to that because the ones that really know you and matter to you have seen just how strong you are mentally and emotionally. You’ve never allowed the tough times in your life to take away your kindness and soft-heartedness.

6.) Less ego, more heart is what you believe in.


It is because of ego coming in the way that people fail to say the important and essential things like, “I’m sorry” or “I miss you” and even “I love you". According to you, ego is petty which is why your connections are solid and strong. It’s because you share your authentic self with your loved ones and also give them the space to do the same.

7.) You don't necessarily forget, but you know how to forgive people.


People have done you wrong, and oh how it hurt. However, you're someone who believes in letting go off the heavy burden known as grudge and forgiving the person who hurt you, no matter how h

Sunday, 16 October 2016

Good night .......


Fuck that people who leave u and judge u to the past

“What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.” ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
The past does not define us; what does is only what we choose to be.
We are slaves to the past only by our choosing.
For it is only by unwillingness do we refuse to let the past remain there.
To enslave one’s self to the past is to relive it within one’s own mind — the past becomes an overbearing and overarching foe, an obstructing veil that colors what we do and how we live. Worst of all, those with whom we interact, those who cannot see and seldom realize the veil of the past that you choose to wear, suffer the consequences of misunderstanding, miscommunication, and strained relations.

Mumma's unconditional love

Just because you give birth to a child doesn't make you a mother! Being a mother means taking care of your kids, cuddling, watching them grow, watching them play and argue, being there for the good and the bad, and most importantly showing them your unconditional love every second of EVERYDAY!

Gentlemen

At a young age, society trains our psyche to expect to meet the one, get married, have kids, and grow old together. Playground songs like “first comes love, then comes marriage, then comes baby in a baby carriage!” make love and relationships seem one-dimensional. Although in monogamous relationships commitment means no playing around, sometimes the inevitable happens — infidelity.
Cheating is a common occurrence in monogamous relationships. According to a study from the University of Chicago, 22 percent of married men and 15 percent of married women have cheated at least once. This all depends on one’s definition of cheating, but the majority does consider sexual intercourse or oral sex to be cheating, while other behaviors like kissing or sexual Webcamming fall into gray areas.
Infidelity can occur at any time in a relationship, with problems in the relationship being the main reason people cheat. However, it’s not always a sign that something is wrong in a relationship. Holly LaBarbera, a licensed marriage and family therapist in Fremont, Calif., told Medical Daily in an email, “Sometimes one partner meets someone with whom they fall in love. Sometimes one partner is unhappy themselves and a new relationship makes them feel alive and special in a way they haven't felt in a long time. Sometimes cheating has nothing to do with the other partner.”
Click "View Slideshow" for surprising facts about infidelity that every person in a relationship should know. 

Saturday, 15 October 2016

This is the comfort and secure zone of life


Truth of every relationship

You see aperson true color when you are no longer beneficial to their life

About love

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दुनिया में,
अकाल तो निभाने वालों का पडा है साहब!!!